Please note,I am not writing this to offend woman,demean them,nor am I referring to ALL,or worship at the temple of my own narcissism. The men can be just as bad.I learned this through dates I met a few who told me horror stories.
Dating sites are not like the real world. Most woman who have overblown egos on dating sites wouldn't get a second look in the real world.
Plenty of Fish is inundated with average and below average looking woman,some of which wouldn't get hit on by the ugliest guy even at his most desperate in even the sleaziest nightclub. See,a lot of woman have the delusion their all of the sudden beautiful because a guy way out of their league responds to their e mail. Some even become arrogant even rude.
I'm writing this so that guys that have been blown off can grow their balls back. You can get castrated by some of these delusional divas. In this blog I will cover what I call the dating site lifers,woman looking to hustle men for free drinks or dinners,or the sex addicts with 10 to your one problem.
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| The photo that got me hammered with e mails. Even my first wife said Paul.I love it!,lol |
A bit about me.I'm short,but rarely got turned down in a few of the local nightclubs I would frequent. Even taller woman flirted with me. One wrapped her feather boa around me,pulled me into her,and boldly kissed me on the lips. This is a woman that just walked up to me. I was the type of guy that would come from behind,place my head on her shoulder,speak right in her ear to overcome the loud club music.Even my 6'4 younger brother admired my boldness.
Woman would look right into me. When I was tan,I was jaw dropping. Woman would quip 'hi there''! ''You are so cute'',or you are absolutely gorgeous.I would sometimes be making out with woman within 20 min of conversation
I was voted as one of MySpace's best looking males,was even given free membership on 4 dating sites by the sites moderators as I attempted to delete my accounts.I received personal e mails from all 4 sites owners who said,Paul,your hammered with e mails,please stay,we could use your help.I was absolutely flattered. I'm also a perfect gentleman.I never met woman to take advantage of them,or use them for sex. I dated some absolutely beautiful woman.I actually had different dates ever week at one point,and these weren't met on dating sites.I've met more woman in public than online
SO,why did I strike out on dating sites? For one thing,woman's inflated egos. See,if you get blown off by a dating site diva,she usually has 2 other guys as a backup plan.I once tried to set another date when the woman rudely responded.I'm actually interested in 2 other guys.I snapped back ''Your not THAT cute,but good luck with your 2 guys [She looked like Radar from MASH with a wig,lol]
I'm not implying that every woman I met was bad. Most guys like me can vouch for the fact that you see a lot of the same faces,some have been on POF for over 6 years. NOW,I know woman can be picky,but you can't tell me after a year,possibly 75 dates,you still haven't met Mr. Right ?
What's funny.is I've been blown off by more woman I haven't met than have. Woman on average are meeting 3-7 guys on Friday nights and weekends. If you ever get this last min ''I gotta cancel'',it means they found someone they think is better,and are brooming your date for them. These are woman you never met the first time . You also have to weed through the ones that demand they refuse to meet until they at least talk on the phone or text for a month. These are usually attention whores that are married,and just looking to string you along.If after a week of phoning,I'd get a cancellation at the end of the week,I just moved on to someone else
Tell you something funny.I have mild Vitiligo [non contagious skin disorder that leaves white spots on your face and neck] I thought I could resolve this by using a self tanner made by L'oreal. What I didn't know is this stuff also contained this tiny sparkles.I was wondering why dates were looking at me funny,I never noticed it.They were probably thinking ''this guy wears dresses too!,lol'' So,as I walked one date to her car,she exclaimed Paul,your face is sparkling,lol. I was embarrassed. You could really see it as my face lit up under the parking lot lights. Also,woman often lie about their heights.I stand barely above 5'7. Several dates stated they were 5'6-5'7 when they were really 5'9-11. See,shorter woman get the most e mails
When a man reaches a certain age,their now considered has- beens Even the best looking guys who approach their late 40's find their inbox dwindling. These sites are crawling with woman over 50 shooting for younger game also known as Cougars. When they get shafted by these younger men who are looking for younger woman,these woman can become the most unbearable to be around. The woman I mentioned below was one example. Here you had an overweight 47 year old shooting for the top. A college grad 9 years her junior and WAY out of her league.If your not careful,you'll end up a rebound for these arrogant dead ends
There are also woman who hustle men for free drinks movies and dinners. know 2 that make a career out of it. The poor sap is never thanked or in most cases even called back
My most hilarious date was with a woman 47 at the time,on food stamps with 3 kids still in grade school.I was actually called as a rescue. See,she got blown off by a tall,handsome LSU grad who didn't want to waste his life on a dead end,nor did I. I mean,how did she possibly think this guy wanted her?.I mean she wouldn't get a date by even the ugliest drunk in New Orleans sleaziest club. This guy wouldn't have even given her a second look in a public setting.Or remotely considered for even a one niter in his most drunken desperate state
She was actually trying to use me as a rebound,I thought how cute. She even helped herself by slipping her hand down my shorts,and trying to get me to her bedroom.I resisted. I found it interesting that she sold vibrators on the side,fit her mentality
My point with the one above is this is SO typical of average,overweight woman who won't settle for anything less than Brad Pitt. What this over picky diva doesn't seem to fathom is no guy wants the excess baggage of 3 kids still living at home,speaking of which,you could get lockjaw in this slobs apartment,I mean it was that gross. I met someone similar to her that was built like a linebacker,and the most obnoxious woman I ever met
I had another quip ''I can see why your alone'' [this was right after I told her to stop calling me] If you go to the link below,it's usually woman that initiate rudeness like this
I wanted to quip back ''Okay on my end,I'm not the one who got the shaft or you wouldn't still be calling my cell [for 3 months yet,lol].I actually met 3 after I blocked her,one just a few weeks after I told her to get lost. I thought,if you had all of these guy friends you claim,why aren't you calling them?
The last I heard from her,she was trying to make me jealous with this dweeb most other woman would tell to take a hike. A woman [Renee] actually did.Can't blame him for having taste,Renee was not only gorgeous,but had 3 attributes she lacked,class and couth and striking beauty They both would make a perfect pair,they both act like 2 five year olds,I mean it's that embarrassing
This woman was not only a devil,but my worst nightmare. What she did was pure sleazy. She was even sharing pics of my ex girlfriend. She even tried to steal someones fiance and a friends boyfriend,then called me a hater [imagine that,lol]
http://livinginthedeadcity.weebly.com/archive/plenty-of-fish-experiment
Yet another begged for sex after we swam in her pool. This was within an earshot of her 14 year old son as I headed for my car.I thought how desperate,lol
Yet another while I payed the dinner tab,was telling me how strikingly handsome I was spoke about all the other men she was presently seeing.I wanted to quip back,I just wish you were attractive. Now,many might think,sounds like you got your ego burned,lol. Nope. She was still on POF 3 years after our date. What I call a POF lifer. This one was average looking,overweight,and one of the most boring female I ever had the mispleasure. Why we went on a second date,don't ask,lol
Another Woman [Lisa] was into ex cons. We had corresponded for over 2 months.When the time came to meet,we decided on Texas Roadhouse. She looked like her pics,but I learned a dark secret halfway into the conversation. She was not only married,but had an ex con living with her. Needless to say I got out of this one fast.
POF is swarmed with fake profiles,woman who are either married or have boyfriends,and are just seeking attention. When a profile looks too good to be true,it usually is .
Lets say you see this real hot blonde? Chances are,this woman is going to get hammered with e mails by the sites best looking guys. She's going to have at least 50 e mails in one day. Now,only 1 lucky guy is going to meet her,the others are going to be looking for easy prey. Their ego's has just gotten flattened so they target all average looking woman on the site. These woman who would never get even noticed in a public setting now have an egos the size of Gibraltar ''Hey,a cute guy just wrote me'' What he's usually looking for is easy sex. When this diva gets the shaft,she's like what did I say?. You didn't say anything. Your just not attractive.
If a woman can't get noticed in a nightclub,even after frequenting it since the time of it's opening. That should tell them something. Sounds harsh,but those are the facts.POF won't change things
POF,MeetMe are for the birds,date at your own risk
SO. What's the best way to meet woman? Facebook. What I do is look for a woman I might have something in common with,and either follow her [a Facebook ''follow'',not as in stalking,lol] Or just write her.If there's a connection,she'll write back.Just make sure your profile doesn't have anything to scare someone off. Be careful though. got a stalker doing this a few years ago. Church is another. What I do is walk in,scope out a cute girl,sit as close as I can,then flirt away after service.I'll say things like ''love your tattoo,who did the work? Just use your imagination
Happy dating. Feel free to comment
